20 Important Things to do and not to do on a first date

First dates can be overwhelming, so streamline your focus into making the first few moments count.



 It takes only few minutes for you to decide if you're interested in the other person (and for them to decide if they are in you).
Remember first impression matters a lot. There are some things which you should do to convey a good message to the other person.

Below are list of

Important Things to do an not to do on a  first date

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Eye contact. Wandering eyes show lack of engagement or interest. However, excessive eye contact can seem creepy.

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Don't talk about past relationships. Skip all talk about your ex's, your dating history or any details about past relationships. This is not first date material!

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Be aware of your body language and non-verbal communication. When we first meet someone, we always judge them on appearance and body language, be aware of it!

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Checking your cell phone on a date is a quick way to make someone feel uncomfortable, like they are not important enough to get your full attention, especially on a first date! Put your cell phone on vibrate and check it when you are alone.

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Be honest about who you are, your specialty, what you like, every last bit of it. Do what comes natural to you, instead of attempting to be what you think your date will like.



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Don't drink excessively. This is a big one, and often a common mistake that causes a good date to go bad.

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Don't be fixated on your appearance. Who needs to waste valuable date time hurrying to the bathroom to brush your hair, re-apply your lipstick, or check the mirror like clockwork? Use your time to make robust conversation and really get to know your date.

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When listening to your date, make sure you ask small questions about what they are saying to show you understand them. These questions should be genuine if you are truly interested.

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Play inside your date's comfort zone, never try to get them to do something they are not comfortable with.

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Don't try to impress too much on the first date because it can backfire. Don't go crazy with what you wear or how you act, try to keep is cool and casual.

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Get up to date with current affairs and major news before your date. Have some things already planned to talk about in case the conversation starts to get boring.

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Get up to date with current affairs and major news before your date. Have some things already planned to talk about in case the conversation starts to get boring.


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Avoid long awkward silences at all costs! Have things planned to say in case this happens.

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Remember your level of closeness while arranging your date. If you don't know each other very well, pick a more conservative date place.

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Be confident and take charge of the date while remaining respectful and easy going.

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During your date, put work aside. Focus on getting to know your dates personality without worrying about the troubles and stress of your daily job.

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Don't wear shoes or clothes that you can't walk in, or that don't fit you right. We know you want to look your best, but a first date is not the time to try those new 6 inch heels or the super tight dress that is on the verge of ripping.

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Never look at another person or flirt with him or her when on a date. It is a sign of disrespect; once you have decided to date that particular person, you should pay attention to him or her an no one else during the date.

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Don't criticize your date's outfit or appearance. If you don't like the person, just keep your impression for yourself and don't meet him or her again.

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Don't kiss your date unless he or she gives the right signals. Becoming intimate too soon will cause total failure.
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